Life's Greatest Teachers

April 26th, 2007 | 4 Comments | Post a Comment

As we travel along the path of life, barriers, challenges, and stumbling blocks are inevitable. And they come in all shapes and sizes. Some come out of nowhere, and some we're prepared for. Some are put in our way by other people. Still others we create or invent ourselves.

As any good personal development program (or wise grandparent) can tell you, it's the challenges in life, the hard times, that present us with our greatest opportunities, as well as our greatest lessons. Looking back over your own experiences, you can probably see evidence of the truth of this. I remember in my own life when I left home for college, having never really been away from home before. At the time, it was a difficult experience for me. Those first few months at college were among the loneliest and most challenging of my life, and I experienced many moments of doubt as I sat alone in my dorm room thinking about my life and my future. But I soon figured out how to get rid of fears and my homesickness and start enjoying the tremendous opportunities all around me. In fact, I finally realized that being away from home for the first time and all of the people I knew, presented me with an amazing opportunity to reinvent myself. And that's exactly what I did. When I look back on the challenge I faced and how I turned it into a tremendous new start for myself, I'm reminded of the power that comes to each of us when we step up to the challenges that come our way.

Of course, emerging on the other side of a life challenge as a stronger, wiser, and hopefully better person is directly dependent on our willingness to step into the unknown with courage and faith. And it's important to remind ourselves that overcoming challenges is a skill that has to be practiced in order to be perfected. Otherwise, the barriers we come across will thwart growth instead of encouraging it. Unfortunately, we can probably all think of someone we know who hasn't been able to get beyond a particular hardship or obstacle, and has suffered for it in one way or another. It takes courage, determination, creativity, optimism and faith to face challenges head on and move beyond them, and it's not always quick or easy. But in the end, the barriers you conquer are your greatest teachers.

4 Comments

cathyApr 26, 2007

This is so true.

mknambiearMay 3, 2007

IT IS A AGOOD ARTICLE.
THOSE WHO HAD UNDERGONE HARDSHIPS WILL DEFINETELY REACH HEIGHER IN LIFE.THEY WILL ACHEIVE THEIR GOALS FOR SURE.IT IS A REAL FACT.
ALL THE BEST,
MKNAMBIEAR

Chuck GallagherJun 30, 2007

Thinking back 11 years ago, I would never have considered that I, a competent, well educated man, would be sitting in prison. That was a life educational experience where I learned, really for the first time, that there are consequences to every unethical choice we make. Though one might think that we can avoid the consequences, the reality is that they are unavoidable and certain. We just don't know how or when we will face the inevitable.

As a former CPA, through a series of bad choices or serious ethics lapses, I became a white-collar criminal. Now, I am an executive in a publicly held company and an international speaker. I now take the time to review my lessons from prison and write about those experiences so that others may gain benefit and perhaps learn from the experience of others. Some of us learn lessons the hard way. Yet, through sharing the experience of my incarceration and return to productivity, others have stated that they've been able to look at their choices in a different and more productive way.

Nadege LewisJul 27, 2007

I have now begun to actively look for the lessons in any negative situation that comes my way. I've seen "good come from bad" in my personal life and from the lives of many others.

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