Ideas About Happiness
Here are some interesting ideas about happiness from the website Mercola.com:
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"Harvard psychologist Dan Gilbert says that you ‘synthesize’ your happiness. That you have a ‘psychological immune system’ that helps you change your views about your world, in order to feel better about the world in which you find yourself."
"Not only that, he also maintains that when we imagine what could make us happy, such as new clothes or winning the lottery our brains are invariably wrong in advising us that those things will make us happy. In fact, statistics show that paraplegics are just as happy as lottery winners one year after the event of either becoming injured, or winning the lottery!"
"We tend to think that getting things such as a job, a new car, or a trip around the world is what will make us happy. However, studies have shown that we make ourselves happy by simply imagining that we are happy. So getting what we want doesn’t actually have anything to do with being happy."
"Why is this?"
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Read the full explanation and see a very interesting clip at Mercola.com:
Read the entire story and watch a clip of Dan Gilbert at Mercola.com
You can also view this TED Talks clip of Dan Gilbert at YouTube.com:
Watch the clip at YouTube.com


It seems clear to me that the group of feelings associated with what we call happiness have a specific function within the machinery of our brain. Speaking from an evolutionary perspective, they are one of the mechanisms which would enable human beings to be related with the things under their influence in a specific way, so that the survival of their families would be possible.
So, "getting what you want doesn't actually have anything to do with being happy", but being happy had to do with getting what was, in the ancient civilizations in which our genes were gradually coded, the need to survive and ensure the survival of the next generation, so that we could talk about this right now. Specifically, the positive feelings of happiness needed, and still need, to be associated with the actions our organisms need to undertake to live.
I may be wrong with everything I said, but I had to explain my point of view.